As a counselor, speaker, and author, I am not satisfied with simply helping people to feel better or even excited for a short period of time. I have dedicated countless hours to discovering reliable ways to help people design real-life transformations. The most thrilling stories from my clients are those in which the individual or couple has integrated a consistent system of functioning that is sometimes hard to describe but they simply know that “this feels right”. I often think of it as a sense of confidence to live daily life as the person that best fits an intentional design; one that is able to be in relationship with the self and others. They are able to live as a person that is able to consistently function within relationships, like marriage, work, or friendships in a way that just “feels right”. Hundreds of people have come to me to share a story of despair and confusion and are now living the lives they have intentionally designed. Thousands have been transformed by following the resources within my teaching. These are the reasons I have worked and studied so hard; to genuinely help people create reliable transformation for a lifetime, not just a moment.